There are limits to everything we want to do, or can do.  These limits are real and they are not as easily solved by just reading some random quote by some famous author that would be one hundred and thirty five years old today.  Just because you post on your social media page that “I’ll never allow someone else to decide if I’m going to be in a good mood today” doesn’t mean that you automatically will be in a better mood.  You have to take the steps it takes to make the quote happen for you.  I firmly believe that we set our own limits, but, if we actually listened to our own voices once in a while, those limits change.  You have to change the limits yourself, I guarantee nobody else will change them for YOUR benefit, only you can do that.  (example)  I want to race Formula One race cars, and I am sure I would be DAMN good at it.  What is keeping me from doing it?  All you have to do is ask ME,  and I’ll give you a thousand excuses why I cannot do it.  (wink).  #myaumakua #doityourself #quitwhining #cupcakesaregood